If you are one of those people who dreads having to make small talk to strangers or even being in a room with a few hundred people - then you are probably an introvert. Introverts make up 25% of the population, and you probably like to be alone, enjoy the quiet, while being around others can be quite tiring and is a least preferred activity.
Making small talk for you is probably as enjoyable as having teeth removed. However, you do not have much of a choice, unless you choose to live on a secluded island. Eventually, you will have to talk to people you do not know. So, here are a few ways to make it easier for you:
Most people you meet are probably extroverts and probably have something to say. So let them talk all they want. You probably have the special gift of listening - so go head, listen and nod your head. It is time you became skilful at your game, so let the extrovert do all the talking while you do all the listening.
One of the best ways to get about it is to find an extremely chatty extrovert and pose a rather vague question that could lead to a lot of talking or explaining. Once they start, let them keep talking.
If the person chatting to you is talking about personal matters, do not fret. You are not expected to share too much of your personal matters in return. Instead, just act pleasant, be polite and look interested. In most cases, the other person might not even notice that you have barely said two words.
It is also important to keep smiling. For one thing, you owe it to the hosts of the event. There is no need to be rude and unpleasant, no matter how much you want to mope around, be unapproachable and look glum.
